By Jill Lawless
LONDON: Gay couples in Britain waited decades for the right to get married. When the opportunity came, some had just days to plan the biggest moment of their lives.
Londoners Sean Adl-Tabatabai and Sinclair Treadway registered their intent to marry on March 13, the first day gay couples could sign up for wedding ceremonies under Britain’s new law. Eager to be part of history, the two men picked the earliest possible moment — just after midnight Friday, when the act legalizing same-sex marriage took effect.
Wee-hour wedding ceremonies like theirs were taking place across England and Wales, while Scotland follows in the fall. It’s a sign of a profound shift in attitudes in a country that little more than a decade ago had a law on the books banning the “promotion” of homosexuality.
“Some people say, ‘You gays are trying to redefine marriage,’ but the definition of marriage has already changed,” said Treadway, 20, a student originally from Los Angeles. “Now it’s between two people who love each other.”
Most Britons agree. Polls show about two-thirds of people in the country back gay unions, and support is highest among the young. Britain has seen none of the large street protests against gay marriage that have taken place in France.
Same-sex marriage has been welcomed with enthusiasm by Britain’s Conservative-led government. Rainbow flags went up over two government buildings Friday in what Deputy Prime Minister Nick Clegg called “a small symbol to celebrate a massive achievement.” Many local authorities offered midnight weddings, competing to hold the first ceremonies.
Treadway and Adl-Tabatabai, 32, a TV producer from London, were married in front of 100 guests at London’s Camden Town Hall, before emerging to the strains of I Got You, Babe by Sonny and Cher.
It would have been unthinkable in the 1980s, when Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher’s government passed a law banning schools and local authorities from “promoting” homosexuality or depicting it as “a pretended family relationship.”
That law wasn’t repealed until 2003. Yet when Parliament legalized same-sex marriage in July, it was by a wide margin and with the backing of Conservative Prime Minister David Cameron.