"But Am I Into Him?" is the latest ebook for women on love and troubled relationships. South African author Jennifer Stewart had an Aha! moment one day when re-reading “He’s Just Not That Into You”. She thought, it’s written for women, but are they subject of the title? Nope. Wrong side of the gender fence. Men are the subject. Jennifer was inspired to write a book for women which makes them the subject.
Women in love often have no power. Men often make all the relationships decisions and instinctively believe they deserve respect. How do they know they are so important? Because we focus on them all the time! They have been the subject of our sentences, questions, and lives for so long that even we believe they are more important. Scary! Plus we have been trying to solve our relationship problems by understanding men better or begging them to change. That’s still giving them all the power!
Gals, it’s enough now! Let’s do for us what we do for men. Forget about hoping they will change. They don’t have to if they don’t want to. Our solution is for us to change, by learning how to make ourselves the subjects of our own sentences and lives, and paying attention to us first. What do we feel, what do we need, what do we like? We don’t know the answers to these questions yet. Authenticity? We don’t know what it is. And how often do we cry "and what about me?"
It’s time for women to answer their own cry. Time to get to know their feelings, what they need, what their rights are, what they like, what they don’t. But Am I Into Him? shows how to do it so that self esteem and entitlement are healed in a real way. When we know more about ourselves than we know about men, that’s when things are going to change for us. We’ll be able to make our own decisions in relationships and be the boss of our own lives. We won’t have to beg for respect, we’ll get it naturally from people who count.
"But Am I Into Him?" is the question most women don’t know they are even allowed to ask. The ebook is available on amazon.com and also smashwords.com where readers can download a PDF to read on their computer, or whatever format they need for their mobile or eReader.
Jennifer Stewart writes from experience. She hit a major life crisis because of her dysfunctional relationships – including that with herself! It forced her to face her low self esteem and lousy entitlement and to do something real about it. This led to her reclaiming herself in every way. Becoming her own person made such a difference to her life that she wanted to pass on what she had learned so other women could experience the same benefits. Her creativity has been released and her life transformed at all levels. She also writes crime fiction and film scripts and has a blog at www.and-whataboutme.com
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