he only way to give their children a better chance at life was to let complete strangers take them away.
Kurtis Petion and Elie Pierre were born with life-threatening heart defects that are routinely fixed in the United States with a single operation.
But the boys live in Haiti, where resources are scarce and childhood heart surgery simply isn’t an option.
So in an airport in Port-au-Prince last month, the father of 1-year-old Kurtis embraced Dr. Jeff Kempf and then let his son go.
The two men had met just several days earlier at St. Damien Hospital, the only pediatric hospital in the Western Hemisphere’s poorest country.
With the help of St. Damien employee and interpreter Denso Gay, Kempf and pediatric cardiologist Dr. John Clark had met with the boys’ parents to explain the operations their children would undergo more than a thousand miles away where the doctors work, Akron Children’s Hospital.
If all went as planned, they would return to Haiti cured — no longer sick or destined to a slow, painful death before adulthood.
In broken English, Kurtis’ father implored Kempf to take good care of his child. Nearby, the mothers of the two boys sobbed.
“Make sure he’s safe,” the father said through tears.
Last month, Kurtis and 4-year-old Elie became the first Haitian patients to come to Children’s Hospital for lifesaving cardiac surgery through Gift of Life North East Ohio Inc.
The charity, affiliated with Rotary International, brings children from around the globe to the United States for heart surgery that isn’t possible in their homeland. Participating hospitals receive token payments from Gift of Life to provide the operations at a steep discount.
To make the journey possible, Kempf and his wife, Ellen — both physicians at Children’s Hospital — opened their Fairlawn home and their hearts.
The couple agreed to serve as surrogate parents, hosting the boys and Gay, who accompanied the children to America as their interpreter and legal guardian. Because of government rules, the Haitian parents weren’t permitted to come.
“Many people came together to love and care for those kids,” Jeff Kempf said.
Boys embrace America
Things like the sounds of English, the sight of snowflakes and squirrels and the smells of McDonald’s burgers and fries were foreign to Elie and Kurtis.
But within a day after arriving in the Kempfs’ spacious house, Elie had made himself right at home.
“Mmmmmm,” he announced when given a doughnut his first morning in America. “Merci.”
Though he speaks Haitian Creole, a language similar to French, Elie immediately began parroting the English words he heard all around him.
Cell phones, in particular, became his favorite tool to try out his new language skills.
“Hello, Dr. Jeff,” Elie said into any cell phone that he could find.
The Kempfs know basic Creole phrases — enough to say “hello,” “goodbye” and ask whether the boys are hungry or in pain.
For more complex conversations, Gay was there to translate between the Kempfs and the boys.
Gay also sent regular updates via email to the social workers at St. Damien Hospital, who shared the messages with the parents.
Kurtis, the younger of the two boys, was just 16 months old when he arrived.
For several nights, Jeff Kempf ended up snuggling with the toddler, who slept in a crib or on one of the two mattresses the couple had set up in the boys’ temporary room.
“He just needs somebody to hold him,” Jeff Kempf said.
Kurtis’ parents had warned that the toddler didn’t have an appetite. But the Kempfs patiently persuaded him to eat, providing a steady diet of his favorites: bananas, Greek strawberry yogurt and organic puff snacks.
Caring for Kurtis, Elie
The puffs, in particular, come in handy for the doctor appointments and tests required before their heart surgery.
Ellen Kempf broke into her bag to distract the boys with puffs and other snacks during an exam with Dr. J.R. Bockoven, a pediatric cardiologist at Children’s Hospital.
Bockoven first met the boys last year, when he was among the volunteers from Children’s examining heart patients at St. Damien Hospital in Haiti.
He then was part of the team that selected the boys from dozens of candidates at St. Damien to become Akron’s first Gift of Life patients.
“It’s a painstaking process, and it’s a very emotional process,” Bockoven said. “There are a lot of kids you see that you can’t do surgery on because it’s too late.”
After less than a week with the boys, Ellen Kempf already knew their personalities well. She could tell Elie was getting nervous when he started wringing his hands in the exam room.
“Happy,” she told him, flashing him a reassuring smile.
Gay also quickly grew close to the boys, learning when they needed to be comforted or held.
When Kurtis fussed during his echocardiogram, Gay climbed on the examining table and sprawled out next to the boy to calm him.
The Kempfs made sure the young Haitians got a true taste of American life. They visited the Cleveland Zoo, went on regular walks through the neighborhood in a plastic wagon and became the center of attention at an Easter egg hunt in the Kempfs’ yard.
The boys quickly bonded with the Kempfs’ 2-year-old granddaughter, Bailee, who often came to the house to play with her new Haitian friends.
Operations repair defects
On the morning of their operations last month, Elie sat comfortably on Ellen Kempf’s lap while playing with Jeff Kempf’s cell phone.
“Hello! Hello!” he announced into the phone.
When it was his time to go to the operating room, Elie let a nurse lead him away.
“Au revoir,” he said, grabbing the nurse’s hand.
During Elie’s operation, Drs. Philip Smith and Michael Spector, pediatric cardiac surgeons at Children’s Hospital, used sutures to tie off a blood vessel that should have closed shortly after birth.
In most cases, the defect can be fixed with surgery alone. But Elie’s vessel was so large that he needed a follow-up procedure to make sure it was fully closed.
The patent ductus arteriosus, or PDA for short, was completely blocked through a catheterization about two weeks later. During the outpatient procedure, Dr. David Waight, director of the cardiac cath lab at Children’s, placed an occluder in the vessel to stop any remaining blood flow.
During Kurtis’ surgery, the medical team stopped the toddlers’ heart from beating so Smith and Spector could place a patch on a hole between the left and right ventricle. A heart and lung machine kept his blood circulating and oxygenated until the procedure was complete.
After each procedure, Smith talked to Ellen Kempf, who waited like an anxious mom for updates.
Gay shared the updates with social workers at St. Damien Hospital, who passed along the messages to the boys’ parents in Haiti.
“This will give him life,” Ellen Kempf said with relief when Elie’s surgery was done.
Stronger than ever
Within several days after their operations, Elie and Kurtis returned to the Kempfs’ home, ready to run and play.
Over the next few weeks, it was clear from their increased energy and healthy glows that both boys were getting stronger.
In early May, the Kempfs marked Elie’s fourth birthday with a party at their home.
During another celebration for the boys at Children’s, the doctors, nurses and other volunteers who cared for them during their stay drew pictures and wrote messages for them in scrapbooks.
“From your ‘mama’ for a month,” Ellen Kempf wrote. “I’ll love you always.”
Rather than bring gifts to the parties, guests were encouraged to contribute to scholarship funds that the Kempfs established at St. Damien Hospital to pay for the boys’ education in Haiti.
If Haitian parents can’t afford to send their children to public school, the kids drop out, Gay said.
Donated ride home
Local children’s author and philanthropist Vanita Oelschlager offered to take Ellen Kempf, the boys and Gay to Haiti this month on her family’s private jet.
Two of the Kempfs’ grown children and Children’s medical photographer and graphic designer Ted Stevens went along to help.
The Kempfs crammed as many clothes, toys and other treasured mementos as possible in bags for Elie and Kurtis to take home.
One of the rainbow-colored leis from Eli’s fourth birthday party now hangs from the ceiling of his barren, one-room home.
The Kempfs hope to see the boys again in August, when the doctors will return to help more patients in Haiti.
“Elie and Kurtis have touched all of our hearts,” Jeff Kempf said, “We have all been blessed by them.”
Cheryl Powell can be reached at 330-996-3902 or email@example.com. Follow Powell on Twitter at twitter.com/abjcherylpowell.